When reaching out to entertainers—whether they are musicians, dancers, actors, or other artists—your security and theirs should come first. Entertainers are frequently exposed to large, unpredictable audiences, and disclosing contact info risks misuse by bad-faith individuals.

Start by using professional communication channels whenever possible. You can usually find their professional email or agency info on their website or bio. Use their official outlets—never respond to unsolicited requests for your private details.

When direct contact becomes unavoidable, consider using a secondary email address or a temporary phone number service. It shields your real identity and lets you manage incoming messages. Avoid giving out your home address, workplace, full guide or any location-based identifiers.

No matter how genuine they appear, guard your personal space. Use messaging apps that allow you to control who can contact you and offer features like message expiration or blocking. If you’re meeting a performer after a show or event, choose a public, well-lit location. Notify a reliable contact of your location and expected return time.

You have zero obligation to disclose anything beyond your limits. Professional artists value boundaries and will never push you.

Always listen to your gut. If your gut says "no," exit gracefully and block without hesitation. Your safety is more important than any connection, no matter how meaningful it seems at first.

With intentional limits and protective technology, you can enjoy meaningful interactions with performers while protecting your personal information.