It's a fact: the more celebrities talk openly about previously taboo topics, the better the public deal with them.

Gabby Logan and her husband Kenny's honesty about the impact of his battle with prostate cancer on their sex life will have far-reaching consequences - for women as well as men.

Prostate cancer doesn't just affect the patient, it can have a profound effect on a couple's sex life and relationship.

The most common side effect of prostate surgery is an erection that's not consistent. This is due to nerve damage during the surgery. Some men lose length in their penis; incontinence can affect his quality of life.

Emotionally, it's also difficult.




Gabby Logan and her husband Kenny (pictured in May 2024 in London) opened up about their love life following his cancer battle

It's not just physical symptoms he'll struggle with. It's not unusual for men to stop having sex after prostate surgery out of embarrassment and shame. 

His body image suffers and lots of men say they feel less attractive. 

Affection can disappear along with sex: what happens if he cuddles you and you expect more, and he can't deliver?

Meanwhile, you're nervous about suggesting sex, in case he's not ready for it. Which some men interpret as you not wanting to have sex with a man whose penis isn't what it was.

How you'll cope reflects on your personalities and level of coping skills. As always, communication is key. 

Couples who talk openly with each other about what's going on, survive the journey - and often thrive.

HOW TO HAVE HOT SEX… WITHOUT AN ERECTION
It might not feel like it at the time, but him having prostate surgery can enhance your sex life - mainly because it causes ED (erectile dysfunction).

If men can learn to relax into sex that isn't intercourse focused, they learn to enjoy foreplay. Because they take longer to get aroused - which may or may not produce an erection - they spend more time on pleasuring us, making for better sex all round.

Because women orgasm from stimulation of the clitoris, 시알리스세일구매 not through penetration, intercourse is often the least interesting part of sex for us. Not getting an erection might freak the hell out of men but it can be good news for his female partner.

Here's how to have great sex - without his penis being star of the show!




The BBC sports presenter and 시알리스 정품 the former rugby union star (pictured) have been together for 23 years





Kenny's (pictured) prostate cancer was discovered after he'd gone to the doctor to check his testosterone levels

Help him accept what's happening. Crack this and the rest is easy.

First, you must understand that losing his ability to get a 시알리스 구입처 standing positions.

For the brave, add anal stimulation. Put a well-lubed finger inside his anus or 시알리스 구입처 insert a butt plug and 시알리스 구입처 leave it there while you stimulate him elsewhere. Vibrating prostate stimulators have revived many a man's interest in sex after prostate surgery.

Give sexual compliments. How much you love a certain part of their body. The way their skin feels. How they make you feel. How good they are at what they're doing. Feeling loved, accepted and wanted sexually is a big part of sexual self-esteem for men.

Tracey's latest book, Great Sex Starts at 50, has lots of practical information about dealing with sex issues later in life.

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